Serious question - what would make you feel appreciated for your donation?
In the past (I donate to the Engineering School), I've received handwritten postcards from the Dean, and when I increased my amount last year, they took me to lunch. They've also given me notices about a lot of special events for donaters. I personally do feel appreciated, but then again, I'm donating specifically to the Engineering school's general fund. I'm not sure about the other schools.
When I used to donate to the AD, I got the Buff Club license plate frame and that was it. That was a handful of years ago though, and I agree, donating to the Buff Club (granted I wasn't a high level), I didn't feel appreciated. However, I guess I didn't really care, because I wanted CU to have the money. What I did care about was extending Hawk...and then the season after the extension.
When reps of the Engineering Dean's Club met with me, they told me that they have a horrible time obtaining contact information of alumni, as well as getting to meet them. Most people simply are not willing to donate, particularly the wealthy ones they know of. This includes athletes - apparently they have a very difficult time convincing athletes to give back to their school. This was the case even in the 90s, and our former football players were making millions in the NFL.
I encourage everyone to donate. It may not feel like you're being appreciated at times, but please give for the sake of CU. Sure they can do a better job of alumni relations, and they both know this and are trying to fix it. However, CU needs support. I'm sure many of us would have done well going to other schools, but the fact is that our lives took us through Boulder. Hopefully this has had a positive impact on your life. Even if you worked hard, the institution still aided your way. Please be grateful and give to CU - it doesn't have to be the AD and football. CU is more than that.
Well said, I couldn't agree more. Donate to CU in whatever fashion you see fit. My personal belief is that increasing academic strength and raising our profile to the level of some of the other public Pac schools (Washington, Cal, UCLA) will draw more students, donations, and field better athletic teams. I am graduating from CU-Boulder this December and plan to donate immediately, channeling my funds into the Physics dept. which is turning into a nationally elite program (see Nobel Prize).