I am with you. I had a poor GPA. I was raised on a dairy and Dad was in a very bad truck accident May of my 8th grade year. Bad enough that the doctors told us not to race to the hospital because he would be gone before we got there. The next two years I was getting up and milking cows (around 120), feeding them, cleaning the barn....before breakfast and school. After school I got to come home and do another 4 hours of work. Summers were plowing, planting and so on. After two years Dad was better and I was suddenly honor roll and able to have the time to study and play sports. But could not catch up enough to qualify for CU or get a scholly. Life is what it is, I am certainly not an ignorant person and did receive scholarships into lower level schools. However, I didn't know what I wanted to do, just that I DIDN'T want to run a dairy!
To an outsider I would be looked at as an underachiever perhaps, but I just had to find my way with how life happened. I hope the best for Roddie, and that he is able to get good advice so that he can move back into our program, or another one after JUCO time.