I think you are knocking down programs for failing to win a title or make a FF, when it's damn hard to get that far. It's hard to make the S16 (FWIW - I firmly believe that if the off-court stuff wasn't happening, Arizona would have been S16 or E8, if not further). If you're at a top program that has the prestige, why not go after top players? I think anyone would be crazy to not go after the best players that they can get, that also fit the program's culture and bball play. Nova does go after top 25 players - just not as many or as aggressively overall as other programs that frankly, are more prestigious bball-wise. Their two recent titles may change things, but I think going after top 100 players as a base with scattering top 25-50 players is what you can expect from Nova. Nova is not a classically dominant program - not a TRUE blue blood. Overall, their classes are up there though. To me, they go after the best players they feel they can get, that fit their program. So say you're the HC at Syracuse, and the top player in the nation is in upstate NY. He's a clear OAD and not really a Syracuse fan, but interested too. You're not going to go after him? You're the HC at Georgetown, and tons of talented players are in the DC area. You're not going to say hi to the top guys to gauge their interest, because they're too talented or potentially OAD? What if two kids are both attending DeMatha and want to play together, and they're both great OAD type kids. You're going to tell them no? UK, Duke, etc also go after the best players they can get, that the coaches feel fit their program.
Teams that have more upperclassmen and players that have developed over the years may ultimately end up winning more titles, and show that developed talent and experience usually win out over sheer, talented/athletic bball freshmen. But I don't think programs are going to suddenly think to themselves that they should recruit less talented players in hopes of keeping them around more. No, I think they'll continue to recruit the best players they feel they can get, that fit their programs, and hope for the best each season. Who knows, maybe your Jalen Brunson or Miles Bridges decide to stick around?