Ok, if you say so.This thread is about PAHI saying goodbye. Your redirection isn’t.
It may look like a duck, quack like a duck, and swim like a duck, but it’s actually a straw man.
(Not really. The duck is just oblivious to his duckiness.)
And I guess you only ‘zing’ once, and I’m trying to figure out which poster he zinged with.Hey,
I respect Burrito and enjoy some of his post but I'm not doing any rubbing with him.
maybe leave that to Jello.
I like diversity of opinion. I’m elated to see PAHI go because I think he’s an unredeemable prick. Over the years I grew weary of being told what I was and what my motives were.The bad news is Allbuffs lost another contributor.
The good news is that people who are offended by our departing member have one less reason to be triggered.
In an echo chamber, similar ideas, information, and beliefs are continuously repeated and amplified until they are all that is heard, drowning out differing points of view.
In an echo chamber, allbuffs members only hear & process information from a limited perspective, because we become surrounded by others who think, believe, and act like everyone else.
As a result, differing ideas or other points of view are disregarded, ignored, or excluded entirely.
Our CU Buff community is diverse. Echo Chambers and cliques on Allbuffs hold the site back.
Embracing diversity in content is essential in driving traffic to the site. It’s the unexpected, weird, and unique that makes social media interesting. What is really special to me is original thoughts, and not just pasting what comes into a curated feed, and shouting down those who are different.
While I disagree with PAHI on any number of occasions, his input gives me a deeper appreciation for what is important to all CU fans. PAHI is one of the “all” in Allbuffs.
I thank him for contributing different points and facing up to the inevitable bullying that unpopular or misguided opinions invoke. I appreciate his humor, his creation of the Female Vocal Friday thread, and most importantly his loyalty to our CU Buffs
According to traffic counters, this web site is ranked around 480,000 in the world and is accessed by hundreds, but not thousands per day.
Every loss hurts, even if that makes the mods jobs easier.
Take care, PAHI. Best wishes in your journey. Hope to see you back next season.
I like diversity of opinion. I’m elated to see PAHI go because I think he’s an unredeemable prick. Over the years I grew weary of being told what I was and what my motives were.
I welcome posters who offer different perspectives than my own. PAHI seemed unwilling to offer simple explanations or responses when his views were constructively challenged.
I’m not motivated or rewarded by likes. I’m honestly frustrated by this bubble of martyrdom that you’ve built around PAHI. If the dude—Buff fan or not—couldn’t be accountable for his assertions and attacks, why should we honor that? He consistently created stories about me, and refused to hear my response. It would be maybe forgivable if he were funny.So no redeeming qualities? Not even even the warm fuzzies from kicking the dog and receiving a few likes under the banner of holding people accountable?
I’m not motivated or rewarded by likes. I’m honestly frustrated by this bubble of martyrdom that you’ve built around PAHI. If the dude—Buff fan or not—couldn’t be accountable for his assertions and attacks, why should we honor that? He consistently created stories about me, and refused to hear my response. It would be maybe forgivable if he were funny.
Based on his behavior, why shouldn’t I be happy to see him go? That’s an honest question.
1. Apologies if I misunderstood your post on the matter. I interpreted it as painting PAHI as a victim.I’m no arbitrator for you or anyone eles’s happiness. I can only speak for myself.
My thoughts are on display. It’s not that PAHI should be held out as some victim. It’s that his presence brings out hate and judgement along the lines of “irredeemable prick”.
That politics board sure stirs up powerful emotions and judgements.
His non-political posts like the Female Vocal Friday thread was a little bit redeemable. That thread checks off the “mildly entertaining contributor” box. I don’t recall him being crass or abusive. I like that quality in a poster.
Over the years I grew weary of being told what I was and what my motives were.
Correct.You're an asshole motivated by unreleased sexual tension.
1. Apologies if I misunderstood your post on the matter. I interpreted it as painting PAHI as a victim.
2. If I see PAHI acting in a way that I view as prick-esque and over time I’m unable to see a path by which he might redeem himself, in your opinion how should I describe that?
3. I can’t emphasize enough it was him, not his politics that drew my ire.
At no point in this conversation was I triggered.My starting place is recognizing that the person on the other side of the conversation is another human being that is worthy of respect on those grounds alone. This is why I refrain from calling people irredeemable pricks or other dehumanizing belligerent labels.
Second I recognize that politics is important, but is secondary to #1
Third, move on. The opposite of love isn’t ire. It’s indifference. Move on to productive conversations with those who you care about and help you grow. (EDIT: or satisfy your unreleased sexual tension. )
You can only be responsible for your own ire. Ire triggered within you by someone else isn’t necessarily someone else’s problem.
That’s all I got by way of advice.
At no point in this conversation was I triggered.
I’m aware that disproportionate energy is about me, not others.
The issue is not the issue, it’s how we respond to the issue that’s the issue.
Having said that, I remain comfortable in my assessment of PAHI.
I feel as though you don’t understand what irredeemable means.At some point prior to this conversation a set of circumstances conspired to trigger your judgement that PAHI is an irredeemable prick.
While I consider such judgment to be harsh, I hear what you are saying and understand you have your reasons for saying and sticking with that judgement.
What would PAHI need to do to earn your forgiveness?
Have something stronger and then come back and start at the top. There is so much more here.Two things were confirmed for me today. PAHI is an irredeemable prick and UK is a sexually frustrated asshole.
Time for a beer.
Ah, but a thread out of hand is worth only HALF of a thread that's well in-hand.This thread should not be here. It’s quickly has gotten out of hand.
I suggest you stop being such a pussy.I would suggest this thread should be moved to the Politics forum. Or wherever, but it doesn’t have anything to do with CU football.
The irredeemable prick meets the sexually frustrated asshole...there is a joke there somewhere.Two things were confirmed for me today. PAHI is an irredeemable prick and UK is a sexually frustrated asshole.
Time for a beer.
You can check out anytime you’d like, but you can never leave