a big part of this is where you are in your life. flash-forward a few years-- pretend you have a wife and kids and between your job and your kid activities, your life is pretty damned full. and, you have to make time and space for the Buffs. and you keep getting kicked in the emotional nuts when you do so.
some of us that are so disillusioned have been with the program for decades. i went to my first game as a small kid in the early 70s. we've been through good, bad, horrible, and incredibly awesome in that time frame. most of us want reasons to believe and to continue to buy tickets, donate, and all the rest. but, what we need in return is hope that there may again be goodness ahead of us.
i'm not quitting on the program and most of the others like me probably won't either, but i don't call for a coaching change lightly. these guys work hard, have families, and are busting their asses. mm is a good man. he's helped us rebuild. i respectfully suggest he is not the right guy to get us further along.