At some point, you have to decide who you are and come to terms with it.
In the last 30 years, here are the non-blue blood schools to win a title: UNLV, Arkansas, Michigan State, Maryland, UConn (though some would argue they're a blue blood now), Syracuse, Florida, Louisville, Villanova. Okay...so, to win a title, you basically have to be one of the best 10-14 programs of all time. So then we're talking about programs in the level that are Final Four/Elite Eight quality more years than not at least recently...but think about the schools in that discussion. Arizona, Wisconsin...these types of programs. So then we're onto the Sweet 16 type of schools...which are usually the teams that round out your average top 25 poll...Xavier, Oregon(recently), Michigan, Florida State, Miami, Maryland...no one is going to say CU is at a point where similar expectations are reasonable, if they're being honest.
So that leaves CU in a place with a whole lot of darn good programs like UNLV, San Diego State, USC, Washington, Texas (no Sweet 16 since 2008), Georgetown (none since 2007), Illinois, Oklahoma State, Pitt, Iowa, Creighton...think about that. Those are programs with history, proper financial support, facilities, recruiting ties, rabid fan bases for hoops, and more. You cannot talk about expectations for the program until you realize how nuts it is that we're now talking about how CU can pass, on a consistent level, programs like these and move into that next group. Once you realize that, ask yourself what's standing in the way. Here's a hint, if you say "Tad", you're missing the entire point and really have no business talking college hoops.