Yesterday I was hearing that BYU had suspended him, not dismissed him. Can anybody verify that he's been dismissed from the team?
I blame his GF.
I hope he at least committed a 3 second violation.
There is some history with the committee and injured players and seeding. Think Cinci and the injury to Kmart. Can't remember what year that was, but they were dropped to a 2nd seed after he broke his leg.
K-Mart broke his leg in the first round of the conference tourney, and Cincy ended up losing that game. He breaks his leg in the Championship game of the conference tourney and lose they would have gotten a 1 seed. That was too bad because Cincy was on it's way to an NCAA title. Nobody, not even Michigan State, was gonna beat the Bearcats that year.
God, this is a GREAT thread. We have the standard sarcasm in a thread about religion and sex. Great stuff there. Then we have the noble defense of the religion and its theology. Wow! Doesn't get better than that. So I want to jump in because I attended a religiously affiliated university (name unsaid as it would offend Sackman). And I also attended CU Law School with a great guy from China. This fellow had also been drummed out of BYU and thus he ended up at CU. But after being thrown out of BYU he found he was unable to get into another school in spite of the fact that he had a great record. He was dismissed from BYU for smoking cigarettes and drinking either coffee or tea. He certainly didn't think that would be enough for other schools than BYU to give a damn. So he demanded that BYU give him the record they were sending other schools. In that record the reason for dismissal was "moral turpitude." He threatened them with a slander suit (he was a law student after all) and forced the school to amend the record with an explanation of what "moral turpitude" was. Of course, he was immediately admitted to CU and he compiled a fine record.
As for this particular situation, visitors here might be interested in an in depth examination of BYU's code as related to the Davies incident: http://www.slate.com/id/2287225/
Hard for me to imagine defending BYU but in this case I do commend them.
To start with they did not kick him out of school, they suspended him. A guy I work with is a mormon and a BYU grad, he knocked up his girlfriend in high school before he ever got to BYU but after being admitted. He had to go through a process to assure them that he would live his life in accordance with church teachings including some counseling and meetings with a number of church and school authorities. The end result was that he married her, they now have a couple of kids and he is very active in the church.
Brandon Davies knew exactly what he was signing up for. He was raised mormon in a highly mormon part of Utah. The conduct expectations were explained to him in individually before he was admitted and reviewed each year after. Even with the violation the school is not throwing him out, they are, within their established system giving him an opportunity to deal with the situation and return to compliance with the exectations of the school and the church that owns the school. If he chooses to do so he will be welcomed back, if not he can transfer out.
I personally would never go to BYU, even if I had a chance to do it for free. I like my beer in the afternoon and my coffee in the morning but its their school they get to make the rules. I would much rather have them be "to strict" on stuff like this than to see schools the have the "situational ethics" that allowed Tom Osborne to play Lawrence Phillips a few weeks after he dragged a girl down a staircase by the hair. That decision really helped everyone involved. It gives Phillips something else to think about as he does his time for his most recent crime against others.
Nobody at BYU says Davies can't have sex with his girlfriend or continue to have sex with her. They simply say if he does he has to comply with the expectations of the church and be married to her. This may not fit well with the modern "if it feels good, do it" morallity that many have but it seems to work well for a lot of people in the long term.
I agree with your comments, MtnBuff. BYU is what it is. To me the Mormons on the whole are extraordinarily naive about life. It's as though they try to hide from some basic truths. But I suppose understanding much about people and sexuality doesn't necessarily amount to living a good life.
You can talk about them being naive and have some good supporting evidence. They have one of the highest rates of teenage pregnancy in the country, much of it out of wedlock. Utah has far and away the highest usage of pay per view porn on cable/satelite in the country. Various statistics indicate that spousal abuse is a serious issue in the church and there are other issues as well.
the weird thing is that if he married this girl and 3 of her friends and knocked them all up, it would be okay. As long as he didn't drink tea.
Ummmmm. No, it wouldn't be ok.
I thought polygamy was cool
http://sports.espn.go.com/ncb/news/story?id=6187625Denver Broncos quarterback Tim Tebow and New York Knicks center Amare Stoudemire both backed Davies, who was kicked off the team for a violation of the BYU honor code. The Salt Lake Tribune has reported Davies violated the code by having premarital sex with his girlfriend.
"I do always think that people definitely deserve second chances because no one is perfect and we mess up everyday," Tebow told the Orlando Sentinel. "There should be a punishment, but I don't know that he should maybe... I don't know. I don't even know the situation, but I just always think about giving people a second chance. Maybe he deserves one, but I don't know the situation."