I actually think we are beating each other up for different reasons.
There is the letter of the law or rule, and then there is intent and appearance.
All leagues want to get big shock hits out of the game. They look violent and dangerous, and after the Hamlin incident, nobody wants a guy knocked out, or worse potentially life-threatening damage.
If Shilo has time, like I think he did to go into the guy with his chest, head to the side, and arms wrapping up, it is a fantastic tackle.
The way that these leagues are getting to where they feel player safety is managed is painful and against the Football everyone loved, but they want to get there and we need to play by those guidelines