I personally don't think Miller is too whiny, but I'm also a Duke fan in addition to CU. K gets called out for "whining" a lot too. I agree with you - ALL coaches work the refs, and many of the great ones (few exceptions) work the refs a lot. In fact, I wouldn't mind it if Tad Boyle worked the coaches a little bit more. The difference in semantics from "working the refs" to whining is all about personal favorites - this is a CU board after a competitive game against Arizona...so Miller is a whiner. Everyone hates Duke, so K is a whiner. Not sure why you want to keep defending this obvious difference in personal definitions.
As for officiating...come on...All established, elite programs get calls. There are many times that I think Duke didn't get a call or the refs put Duke down with their calls. BUT...I CAN NEVER complain about it, because Duke gets more of them in their favor than not. Same with Arizona... ...it was a terribly called game, but get over it man. Your team has gotten more calls than not, and they will continue to get them. It's rarely drastically unfair, but enough that it should make you pause before complaining about refs. The refs didn't lose this game for Arizona...CU should have won by a lot more in my opinion. Good game though - hope Arizona makes some noise in the tournament.