I literally invested hundreds of hours in two volunteer positions last year. Afterwards, both entities tried to compensate me in the range of tens of thousands of dollars. I declined, because I wanted to make sure that I was volunteering for what I considered the right reasons.1. He didn't have an offer from Cal until he did. What is he supposed to say?
2. You are kidding yourself if you think you are any different. If you accept a job offer and then before you start someone else offers you five or ten times what you would be making with the original offer, then you and everyone else take the second offer.
3. College is for the students, not the school. Real character is working to be the best you can be.
4. In the real world, changing course and making adjustments to achieve success in dynamic situations is what you do. Questioning someone's character for making good decisions is...well....questionable.
5. I'm not sure you fully understand when a commitment is a Commitment. Marriage is a commitment. Parenting is a commitment. Tacos for lunch is a choice.
Like others, I have tremendous self-interest. I'm not denying that. But I'm confident that in a similar situation, I would have handled this situation very, very differently. I would not have ****ed Chiv that way, even to my personal detriment.
I'm even more convinced that you and I view this world very differently. I'm aware that people behave the way you describe--I'm not that naïve, but I know a lot of people that personally sacrifice for their relationships, and are doggedly committed to their word.