Don't make this a pecker contest.
Because a 3rd degree assault charge doesn't stem from throwing a cell phone into a creek, pretty simple if you ask me.What makes it the dumbest post you have ever seen? The simple fact that you don't agree with it? Because by the letter of the law it is a 100% plausible scenario.
Because a 3rd degree assault charge doesn't stem from throwing a cell phone into a creek, pretty simple if you ask me.
Because a 3rd degree assault charge doesn't stem from throwing a cell phone into a creek, pretty simple if you ask me.
Stop with they hyperbolic bull****. Whether or not he is convicted and sentenced is for the courts to decide. Please show me where I said otherwise. But this is not a legal system forum, it is a Colorado Football board. And coming off the off season we just did, he needs to go. The sad thing is you're rationalizing without even realizing you're doing it. It's the same **** people have been doing in defense of abusers for years. This is how it starts.
What the heck I am going to wade in. Everyone on this board is rationalizing and guessing and people are doing it in both directions. We don't have the facts and until we do it is really quite impossible to say whether Julmisse should be gone or not.
That being said, the one fact we have is that Julmisse is currently under lock and key. Typically speaking someone wouldn't be held like that unless the situation were serious. So, while I am reserving judgment until I hear more about the incident and charges, I am already expecting him to be gone and anticipating that dismissing him will be the right thing to do.
Bottom line now is that I hope the other person involved is ok and that CU does the right thing.
See. now we have a problem."According to an arrest affidavit warrant, a woman alleges Julmisse grabbed her arm, dragged her down the hallway and tried to push her down the stairs when she confronted him about his other girlfriend this past Sunday."
This is insane. An arrest is proof of nothing. Get a hold of yourself, man.
Not good. I suspect he is gone."According to an arrest affidavit warrant, a woman alleges Julmisse grabbed her arm, dragged her down the hallway and tried to push her down the stairs when she confronted him about his other girlfriend this past Sunday."
According to an arrest affidavit warrant, a woman alleges Julmisse grabbed her arm, dragged her down the hallway and tried to push her down the stairs when she confronted him about his other girlfriend this past Sunday.
The affidavit reveals that CU police were dispatched to a disturbance at 9:55 p.m. Sunday at the Bear Creek Apartments on campus at 3355 Apache Road. A woman explained to police that she went to Julmisse's apartment at about 8:30 p.m. to confront him about another girlfriend.
She said they began verbally arguing on their walk down the hall to the laundry room, and she told him, "I hope you and your girlfriend are happy," before returning to her car.
But then she knocked on Julmisse's door a second time because "she had more things on her mind she wanted to tell Julmisse," including a request that he leave her alone, according to the document.
The woman said that's when Julmisse grabbed her arm, dragged her down the hallway and tried to push her down the stairs. She said she did not want to press charges and that she did not really want to report it if her name was going to be made public.
When police talked to Julmisse that night, he said he and the woman had dated for one to two months in 2016, but terminated the relationship and had become friends. The woman told police they had dated from November 2016 to April 2017, at which point the relationship was "on again, off again."
Julmisse told an officer that he believed she intended to enter his room and he was concerned because his current girlfriend was inside. He said he did not want a fight to ensue between the two. She denied wanting to enter his room.
He said he "escorted (her) down the hallway via his grasping her, with his right hand, upon her left lower forearm area after she failed to comply with his request to leave the area, especially considering her loud and disruptive verbal outburst."
A resident in the building told police he "heard a female yelling 'at the top of her lungs.'"
Ok shame on me for taking @AllStarBuffs at face value.
After reading the full description of the event from both sides in the link posted by @SerenityBuff, I am really unsure about what is going to happen with this.
If the guy laid a finger on this woman, he should go to jail. In that scenario he deserves everything that would be coming for him.
Didn't we just discuss this? You don't have the right to physically remove someone from your apartment complex. If she's outside yelling, call the police. Don't take it upon yourself to remove her, especially if you feel she's a threat.
Based on what I read, this is next to nothing. Conspicuously missing from the police report is any note of injury. Believe me, if the woman had a red patch on her arm, the cop would've put it in his report. Julmisse gave a completely believable account of what happened (though, of course, he could've been untruthful.) Based solely on this report, put this case before a jury and you get an acquittal almost every time. I can hear my summation now: "Every day Anthony practices tackling men weighing 200 or more pounds. If he wanted to throw this lady down the stairs, she would've been down the stairs."
I'll give the obligatory "domestic violence is bad" but it's far from clear that's what this was.
Please carry on with the hand wringing.
Reminds of an apartment living episode many years ago. Angry GF goes to door of then, soon to be ex-BF, yelling at him about how she hoped he was happy and he got what he wanted. Then she left, came back largely repeating the same crap, this time throwing a couple of items of personal property, presumably belonging to the BF. She came, and went, 3 or 4 times. Each time with the proviso, "I never want to see you again!". I watched from my balcony, with amusement, and a cold one.She left the building, then went back up to his apartment and told him to leave her alone?
A friend of mine with the Denver PD A detective of over 25 years, always warned me about CB's. He said the police and the courts will all most always take their side. When are we going to rewrite legal status to protect men from CB's. The only thing you can do is start recording and call the police. In the case of these kids, you better call your coach also.
You lawyers are a special breed.
This is tough. From the limited amount of info in the BDC article, it appears that she was a woman scorn and acting in such a way that AJ felt threatened. What he should have done was lock his door and call the cops. Unfortunately, he did not, and he attempted to escort this young woman away....it appears to me that he had no intent to actually harm her, he was trying to diffuse the situation.For those of you that think this is next to nothing.... In 1970 or 1980, this is next to nothing. In today's environment, once he grabbed her, he is violating the law. This is a serious legal issue for him. I don't see him enrolled at CU in a month. I am an advocate for second chances, unfortunately for him, the timing could not have been worse.
If the judge looks at this and says it isn't up to snuff for domestic violence, Julmisse should be reinstated. #notalawyer