I think that you deny the existence of racism too easily. That makes sense because your bias (calling pointing out obvious racism a “card”) clouds your ability to see what’s right in front of you.
Racism comes from bias about what certain groups are required to achieve and others are not. Prime is not immune from valid critique. No coach is immune from germane criticism. However, when the standards applied to Black coaches exceed the standards applied to white coaches, it is an obvious example of racism.
For instance, Colorado’s haters (that you say are justified) stated after our 5 point win over NDSU that the game was an epic failure because it was a single digit win over an FCS team. That same criticism has been missing from top-5 ranked Oregon winning by 10 despite being 40 point favorites against FCS Idaho. The list goes on.
You can remain willfully ignorant to this reality and continue to deny because it’s incompatible with your concept of the world. But that doesn’t change the truth of the matter.
You hit on a very important point here about the entire discussion.
All racism doesn't look the same or have the same degree of intensity but the simple reality is that if a person allows, even unconsciouscly, to allow race to impact their thinking or actions that is racism. It doesn't have to be running around in white robes and burning crosses to be racist.
The very simple act of judging somebodies speech based on speech patterns or word usage, of favoring one person over another because they are "more like us," and many more similar things that go back to a person because of their race is racism.
The coaching fraternity, and the media that covers it, has grudgingly accepted that there will be Black coaches. No offense intended here but they are okay with the Karl Dorrells and the Tyrone Willinghams of the world. Guys who are Black but who fit into the expectations the established coaches have of how a coach should act, speak, and respond to the established white coaches.
Prime isn't that. Prime is a man who has had success at every level he has ever tried. He is a man of high morals who cares about his players as human beings, who expects them to be quality students and human beings, to treat others well, who is not shy about acknowledging his faith, but who refuses to hide who he happens to be.
Prime is a Black man who is justifiably proud to be a Black man and who encourages the same in his players. This is very hard for many in the coaching and media world to accept, including some Black members of those groups who have adapted their styles and thinking to fit the expectations of the establishment.